Care Enough to Make Dua
Dear brothers and sisters,
i have a brother backhome. it's really hard to write about it as my heart burns and my eyes fill up with tears. no, he is not sick, not disabled, alhamdulillah, he is healthy and in a good mood. the problem is that he is the only son and was raised very spoiled by my grandmother(peace be upon her). my parents were busy all their lives with work to feed us, provide us with schoolbooks and cloths...
after 19 years, today he is very different, arrogant and absolutely lazy, stubborn person. he dropped from university, does not work, just sits at home, eats and browses Internet. i live in foreign country due to my graduate studies. i am done with my masters soon and will be looking for a job, while immigrating here. me and my sister are very hardworking and eager to study, learn something, help our parents, but unfortunately, my brother is totally opposite. he became rude, often raising hs voice on my elder sister and parents, disrespecting them, hurting them... more i write, more i feel pain thru millions of distances, thru oceans and continents..i know it was a fault that they spoiled him and so on, but now when my parents are old and just hope that the only son would ease their lives with good deeds and respect, it does not happen. and this makes me feel so unhappy, so sad..
in the country where i am from, it's hard to find a job and make a good living. and people like my brother feel insecure and very lost. yes, he is lost. i love him so much even he hurts me, i love him. he is part of me, my blood and his uncertainty brings me worries about his future. i am trying to bring my brother here to study and work. i am trying to do everything possible to bring him here, so at least he sees the cruel world of the west and learns how to survive and appreciate the peace, warm home and always nice parents. we, all musofirs, living in our small worlds, missing our families and wishing them only good. i am one of those who really wants to see every family in the world happy, healthy and glad. it's probably impossible as there can't be any perfect family, but at least happier...
i ask all of my dearest ummah to pray for my only brother, that Allah swt enlightens his soul, brings him back his true values, and softens his heart, throws away bad things, thoughts and actions from him. I beg you people to pray for his acceptance of visa and successful arrival to me, to this country so it will eventually change his life and his attitude to many things, inshaAllah.
Please, pray for his coming to the west in february. Please, Ya Rabbi!
assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullohi wabarokatuh.
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i have a brother backhome. it's really hard to write about it as my heart burns and my eyes fill up with tears. no, he is not sick, not disabled, alhamdulillah, he is healthy and in a good mood. the problem is that he is the only son and was raised very spoiled by my grandmother(peace be upon her). my parents were busy all their lives with work to feed us, provide us with schoolbooks and cloths...
after 19 years, today he is very different, arrogant and absolutely lazy, stubborn person. he dropped from university, does not work, just sits at home, eats and browses Internet. i live in foreign country due to my graduate studies. i am done with my masters soon and will be looking for a job, while immigrating here. me and my sister are very hardworking and eager to study, learn something, help our parents, but unfortunately, my brother is totally opposite. he became rude, often raising hs voice on my elder sister and parents, disrespecting them, hurting them... more i write, more i feel pain thru millions of distances, thru oceans and continents..i know it was a fault that they spoiled him and so on, but now when my parents are old and just hope that the only son would ease their lives with good deeds and respect, it does not happen. and this makes me feel so unhappy, so sad..
in the country where i am from, it's hard to find a job and make a good living. and people like my brother feel insecure and very lost. yes, he is lost. i love him so much even he hurts me, i love him. he is part of me, my blood and his uncertainty brings me worries about his future. i am trying to bring my brother here to study and work. i am trying to do everything possible to bring him here, so at least he sees the cruel world of the west and learns how to survive and appreciate the peace, warm home and always nice parents. we, all musofirs, living in our small worlds, missing our families and wishing them only good. i am one of those who really wants to see every family in the world happy, healthy and glad. it's probably impossible as there can't be any perfect family, but at least happier...
i ask all of my dearest ummah to pray for my only brother, that Allah swt enlightens his soul, brings him back his true values, and softens his heart, throws away bad things, thoughts and actions from him. I beg you people to pray for his acceptance of visa and successful arrival to me, to this country so it will eventually change his life and his attitude to many things, inshaAllah.
Please, pray for his coming to the west in february. Please, Ya Rabbi!
assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullohi wabarokatuh.
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